The wonders of Her
From the day onwards that I've developed my cognition, she's have known with, she likes to nag, get mad and angry easily towards whoever annoyed her, control way of spending of mine, decide who I should friend with, decide my eating habits, demand me to well-behaved, require me to be courteous to the elders, and many other more. I can list out thousands weaknesses of her easily, but I can list out what she did in the behind-scene without my knowing.
She will keeps herself to save money not to buy anything for her own, but to let me spend it as easy as like wash my hands. She will keeps her desire away to want a special something by sparing it for me. When we only have one small umbrella during the raining days, she will rather get herself expose to the rain, but not letting me to. When I'm sick, she will demand me to go clinic, but if her's turn, she don't want to. I know when she have a hard times, she will keep on saying, it's okay, my dear, I'm fine. This probably become her favourite quote, whenever and whereever.
Then when i grew up, I realized that, she, will never say no to you, unless it's harmful to you. She, will never stop loving you, no matter what you've turn and whoever you're. She, is the great existence in this world that will sacrifice her own precious time on you, to just gain a smile from you.
Never take her love granted, not just her's one, but for those who are loving you's one.
Overcome or escape? - Fear
All of us, have one fear at least. None of us have no fear at all, even it is, it's showing that you're having a problem, with escaping from your fear. Haha Fear, can change as your life goes on. For example like before you going for army service, you're not fear about water at all, but when after you went for army service and encountered some cases, your fear to water will increase. Well, some people felt that it's not a problem by escaping from it. But some fears are the fatal one by some people, and must be overcome by them. It's fine for us too have fear, but one thing is, how daring you are to challenge yourself and push the boundaries and overcome the fear? Even myself, will tried to overcome it, but most of time will escape from the fear that I've encountered at the last minute. It's good for you to have at least one time to try on overcoming your fear? One thing is, we no need to afraid our fear, just let it be
All of us, have one fear at least. None of us have no fear at all, even it is, it's showing that you're having a problem, with escaping from your fear. Haha Fear, can change as your life goes on. For example like before you going for army service, you're not fear about water at all, but when after you went for army service and encountered some cases, your fear to water will increase. Well, some people felt that it's not a problem by escaping from it. But some fears are the fatal one by some people, and must be overcome by them. It's fine for us too have fear, but one thing is, how daring you are to challenge yourself and push the boundaries and overcome the fear? Even myself, will tried to overcome it, but most of time will escape from the fear that I've encountered at the last minute. It's good for you to have at least one time to try on overcoming your fear? One thing is, we no need to afraid our fear, just let it be
Optismistic ⊙ Pessimistic
The QingMing Festival, is known as Tomb-sweeping Day where we worship our loved one. When I'm small, I didn't had a chance to participate tomb sweeping day where my relatives all are still healthy. This caused me to only know the feelings when we lost our loved one is the most painful one, but I do not understand it, until my dad passed away. This lesson taught to us where we wouldn't understand something until we had experienced it. And some people said you worship your loved one is only to comfort your inner feelings, but I'm strongly disagreed with this. Eventhough our loved one had passed away and disappeared in this world, but the tomb will remind us for the existence of our loved one once before.
Some people are pessimistic for the death of our loved one, but some are optimistic when they faced the death of their loved one. People said time heal everything, but no matter how long time flies, we are still will longs for our loved one. Whether you're facing the death and the memorial of your loved one with optimistic or pessimistic or with the tears rolling down to cheek or stay calmed still, but I believe that for sure no-one wants to be separated with their loved one. They might disappeared in this world, but they are still lviing in our hearts forever and ever, and left a pace in our hearts.
P/S: Express your love to your loved one before it's too late and appreciate every moments when you're still have a chance to listen the voices of your loved one, and see the smile of your loved one.
Dear my dad, all I want to say is I love you and I miss you!
The QingMing Festival, is known as Tomb-sweeping Day where we worship our loved one. When I'm small, I didn't had a chance to participate tomb sweeping day where my relatives all are still healthy. This caused me to only know the feelings when we lost our loved one is the most painful one, but I do not understand it, until my dad passed away. This lesson taught to us where we wouldn't understand something until we had experienced it. And some people said you worship your loved one is only to comfort your inner feelings, but I'm strongly disagreed with this. Eventhough our loved one had passed away and disappeared in this world, but the tomb will remind us for the existence of our loved one once before.
Some people are pessimistic for the death of our loved one, but some are optimistic when they faced the death of their loved one. People said time heal everything, but no matter how long time flies, we are still will longs for our loved one. Whether you're facing the death and the memorial of your loved one with optimistic or pessimistic or with the tears rolling down to cheek or stay calmed still, but I believe that for sure no-one wants to be separated with their loved one. They might disappeared in this world, but they are still lviing in our hearts forever and ever, and left a pace in our hearts.
P/S: Express your love to your loved one before it's too late and appreciate every moments when you're still have a chance to listen the voices of your loved one, and see the smile of your loved one.
Dear my dad, all I want to say is I love you and I miss you!
20 seconds of insane courage • 20 seconds of embarrassing bravery
"All you need is 20 seconds of insane courage and I promise something great will come of it" by 'We Bought a Zoo'. Sometimes, we no need a 20 minutes or 20 hours of courage to decide what we want to do, but it's only 20 seconds of courage and 20 seconds of embarrasing bravery. I believe that most of us have ever experienced it by telling to ourselves that all we need are only 20 seconds of seconds to do it, and to overcome it. Courage doesn't need to be have consistency of courage, but only 20 seconds of insane courage. 20 seconds of courage is more than enough for us to do what we really want when we are having hard times where we are cowardly escaping from our problems and difficulties in facing the reality. I believe that the quick decision that have make by 20 seconds of courage is far more accurate than the decision takes longer courage to decide. The quick decision that have made was the finale one, was the first thought in your mind.
I know it was difficult for each one of us to face and do whatever we want. If we wouldn't have difficulties to face or do whatever we want, then we wouldn't have problems to spare for courage. So yea, everyone of us only need the short 20 seconds of insane courage and 20 seconds of embarrasing bravery to face everything what we want to. For those who are still escaping from the problems and realities, where you don't believe the miracle that brought by 20 seconds of insane courage, then what are you still waiting for? You only live once! You shall break the restriction that have set by you and all you need only is 20 seconds of insane courage, to decide or even to do some other crazy stuffs. It's only the short 20 seconds, not even 20 minutes or 20 hours! Let's try to build up the 20 seconds of insane courage together, for the sake of you won't get regret next time!
"All you need is 20 seconds of insane courage and I promise something great will come of it" by 'We Bought a Zoo'. Sometimes, we no need a 20 minutes or 20 hours of courage to decide what we want to do, but it's only 20 seconds of courage and 20 seconds of embarrasing bravery. I believe that most of us have ever experienced it by telling to ourselves that all we need are only 20 seconds of seconds to do it, and to overcome it. Courage doesn't need to be have consistency of courage, but only 20 seconds of insane courage. 20 seconds of courage is more than enough for us to do what we really want when we are having hard times where we are cowardly escaping from our problems and difficulties in facing the reality. I believe that the quick decision that have make by 20 seconds of courage is far more accurate than the decision takes longer courage to decide. The quick decision that have made was the finale one, was the first thought in your mind.
I know it was difficult for each one of us to face and do whatever we want. If we wouldn't have difficulties to face or do whatever we want, then we wouldn't have problems to spare for courage. So yea, everyone of us only need the short 20 seconds of insane courage and 20 seconds of embarrasing bravery to face everything what we want to. For those who are still escaping from the problems and realities, where you don't believe the miracle that brought by 20 seconds of insane courage, then what are you still waiting for? You only live once! You shall break the restriction that have set by you and all you need only is 20 seconds of insane courage, to decide or even to do some other crazy stuffs. It's only the short 20 seconds, not even 20 minutes or 20 hours! Let's try to build up the 20 seconds of insane courage together, for the sake of you won't get regret next time!
The Mistake ● The After-Attitude
Everyone did a mistake, yes, I'm truly agreed with this, everyone will have done for a mistake for sure, at most. Well, my mistake really reminds me of this quote. It makes me wonder that the after-attitude of people when they have done a mistake. It's like 'fight or flee' situation, whether you'll apologize for what you've did or escape away from what you've did? Well, some people might keep on reminding themselves not to repeat the same mistake ever and ever again, but the question is did they introspect for what they had did? Well, I believe that whether to fight or flee, if self-introspection doesn't existed in your mind, you'll never be able to move forward, will never know exactly what's the real problems exist in you.
I know some situations might not be convenient for you to admit what you've did and apologize, what you can do is only to feel guilty, and keep the guilt inside your heart, This reminds me of a theory, where it's the Golden Mean theory, where each one of us, should balance the good and bad sides that hidden in our bodies. A simple example like, when you broke something in a shop, but if you can't afford the price, you shall apologize to the staff of the shop, and might lend money from your family or friends that are with you on that particular moment to make payment. Or you even can tell the staff that you'll come back later for going to ATM machine to bank out some cash to pay for it. This will balance your good and bad sides, haha. Well this did not explain much about this theory, but it actually helps us alot where we can actually know what we should do after we have done a mistake, instead of escaping from our problems and guilts. Mistakes will make us to grow stronger, do believe it!
Everyone did a mistake, yes, I'm truly agreed with this, everyone will have done for a mistake for sure, at most. Well, my mistake really reminds me of this quote. It makes me wonder that the after-attitude of people when they have done a mistake. It's like 'fight or flee' situation, whether you'll apologize for what you've did or escape away from what you've did? Well, some people might keep on reminding themselves not to repeat the same mistake ever and ever again, but the question is did they introspect for what they had did? Well, I believe that whether to fight or flee, if self-introspection doesn't existed in your mind, you'll never be able to move forward, will never know exactly what's the real problems exist in you.
I know some situations might not be convenient for you to admit what you've did and apologize, what you can do is only to feel guilty, and keep the guilt inside your heart, This reminds me of a theory, where it's the Golden Mean theory, where each one of us, should balance the good and bad sides that hidden in our bodies. A simple example like, when you broke something in a shop, but if you can't afford the price, you shall apologize to the staff of the shop, and might lend money from your family or friends that are with you on that particular moment to make payment. Or you even can tell the staff that you'll come back later for going to ATM machine to bank out some cash to pay for it. This will balance your good and bad sides, haha. Well this did not explain much about this theory, but it actually helps us alot where we can actually know what we should do after we have done a mistake, instead of escaping from our problems and guilts. Mistakes will make us to grow stronger, do believe it!
Boundaryless Love • Family = Non-blood-related
Love, is the greatest power of all living beings. Love can be expressed in any forms, ways and more. Love does not necessary to be expressed by your blood sharing relations family, it might be someone that are not sharing any blood-relations with you. People said, blood is concentrated than water. It's meant by nothing can compared to blood-related family, even non-blood-related one. What make them to think that family is only defined as for those who are blood-related? We humans, need blood and water to survive at the same time, whereby the love from blood-related one and non-related one. We can't survive without blood, we can't survive without water either. Am I right? haha Family, is not everything about blood-relations, its about the greatest love that you're sparing to the one that you love. Sometimes, blood-relations family will not sacrifice as much as possible compared to the family that are not sharing any blood-relations. There's no such thing as family = blood-relations, family ≠ non-blood relations. It's an unfair love equation. You can giving infinity love to someone that are not sharing blood-relations with you, whereby to hold your hunger just to keep your non-blood related family full, to hold your cold just to keep them warm, to hold your any wants just to keep them have a better lifestyle. There's nothing to be greater than the boundaryless love in this world, so far. This is what I've found out after I grew up, the little thing that people might not realized it forever. Appreciate the love that spared by your family, friends, lover or even strangers.
P/S: Let's love each other together, and #prayforMH370!
Love, is the greatest power of all living beings. Love can be expressed in any forms, ways and more. Love does not necessary to be expressed by your blood sharing relations family, it might be someone that are not sharing any blood-relations with you. People said, blood is concentrated than water. It's meant by nothing can compared to blood-related family, even non-blood-related one. What make them to think that family is only defined as for those who are blood-related? We humans, need blood and water to survive at the same time, whereby the love from blood-related one and non-related one. We can't survive without blood, we can't survive without water either. Am I right? haha Family, is not everything about blood-relations, its about the greatest love that you're sparing to the one that you love. Sometimes, blood-relations family will not sacrifice as much as possible compared to the family that are not sharing any blood-relations. There's no such thing as family = blood-relations, family ≠ non-blood relations. It's an unfair love equation. You can giving infinity love to someone that are not sharing blood-relations with you, whereby to hold your hunger just to keep your non-blood related family full, to hold your cold just to keep them warm, to hold your any wants just to keep them have a better lifestyle. There's nothing to be greater than the boundaryless love in this world, so far. This is what I've found out after I grew up, the little thing that people might not realized it forever. Appreciate the love that spared by your family, friends, lover or even strangers.
P/S: Let's love each other together, and #prayforMH370!
The Happy Potion ⊙ Dedicate to everyone that are down
People often question that why wouldn't this world have a potion to forget about sadness, love or anything that are bad. Then my turn to question that, why wouldn't this world have happy potion? Even milk can release some hormone to make us depress, then why wouldn't have some potions to cheer us up? The potions that to motivate us again. Or why don't have some potions to change our perception, from pessimistic to optimistic It will be way more far far better than forgetting about anything, forget about what had happened. We humans can't afford to lose any memories in our brains, once we are losing it, we are nothing, just like a plain paper, no more be like an interesting story book! Why? Why bothering about forgetting everything to make you better? It'll be alright, just let it be! Well, it's okay that we don't have the happy potion exists in this world, we ourselves are the happy potion to our own! :D No matter how hard it is, never stop believing it! Never stop believing on the beliefs of you'll be alright, you'll be grow stronger, are far way more powerful than the rest of stupid pills and potions.
P/S: Smile to the end, and win the fight! :D Hwaiting!
People often question that why wouldn't this world have a potion to forget about sadness, love or anything that are bad. Then my turn to question that, why wouldn't this world have happy potion? Even milk can release some hormone to make us depress, then why wouldn't have some potions to cheer us up? The potions that to motivate us again. Or why don't have some potions to change our perception, from pessimistic to optimistic It will be way more far far better than forgetting about anything, forget about what had happened. We humans can't afford to lose any memories in our brains, once we are losing it, we are nothing, just like a plain paper, no more be like an interesting story book! Why? Why bothering about forgetting everything to make you better? It'll be alright, just let it be! Well, it's okay that we don't have the happy potion exists in this world, we ourselves are the happy potion to our own! :D No matter how hard it is, never stop believing it! Never stop believing on the beliefs of you'll be alright, you'll be grow stronger, are far way more powerful than the rest of stupid pills and potions.
P/S: Smile to the end, and win the fight! :D Hwaiting!
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