The Mistake ● The After-Attitude

    Everyone did a mistake, yes, I'm truly agreed with this, everyone will have done for a mistake for sure, at most. Well, my mistake really reminds me of this quote. It makes me wonder that the after-attitude of people when they have done a mistake. It's like 'fight or flee' situation, whether you'll apologize for what you've did or escape away from what you've did? Well, some people might keep on reminding themselves not to repeat the same mistake ever and ever again, but the question is did they introspect for what they had did? Well, I believe that whether to fight or flee, if self-introspection doesn't existed in your mind, you'll never be able to move forward, will never know exactly what's the real problems exist in you.
    I know some situations might not be convenient for you to admit what you've did and apologize, what you can do is only to feel guilty, and keep the guilt inside your heart, This reminds me of a theory, where it's the Golden Mean theory, where each one of us, should balance the good and bad sides that hidden in our bodies. A simple example like, when you broke something in a shop, but if you can't afford the price, you shall apologize to the staff of the shop, and might lend money from your family or friends that are with you on that particular moment to make payment. Or you even can tell the staff that you'll come back later for going to ATM machine to bank out some cash to pay for it. This will balance your good and bad sides, haha. Well this did not explain much about this theory, but it actually helps us alot where we can actually know what we should do after we have done a mistake, instead of escaping from our problems and guilts. Mistakes will make us to grow stronger, do believe it!

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