Optismistic ⊙ Pessimistic

      The QingMing Festival, is known as Tomb-sweeping Day where we worship our loved one. When I'm small, I didn't had a chance to participate tomb sweeping day where my relatives all are still healthy. This caused me to only know the feelings when we lost our loved one is the most painful one, but I do not understand it, until my dad passed away. This lesson taught to us where we wouldn't understand something until we had experienced it. And some people said you worship your loved one is only to comfort your inner feelings, but I'm strongly disagreed with this. Eventhough our loved one had passed away and disappeared in this world, but the tomb will remind us for the existence of our loved one once before.

      Some people are pessimistic for the death of our loved one, but some are optimistic  when they faced the death of their loved one. People said time heal everything, but no matter how long time flies, we are still will longs for our loved one. Whether you're facing the death and the memorial of your loved one with optimistic or pessimistic or with the tears rolling down to cheek or stay calmed still, but I believe that  for sure no-one wants to be separated with their loved one. They might disappeared in this world, but they are still lviing in our hearts forever and ever, and left a pace in our hearts.

      P/S: Express your love to your loved one before it's too late and appreciate every moments when you're still have a chance to listen the voices of your loved one, and see the smile of your loved one.

      Dear my dad, all I want to say is I love you and I miss you!